My problem is that I feel really horny when I meet my girlfriend. But she is really uncomfortable doing any make-out. Let me elaborate on this.

The only place we can make out in a date is in the car parked somewhere in an area where no one would come. It is a public place sure but private. And we have kissed at such a place twice.

But, in general, she is not comfortable kissing in a public place like that. Also, I really like her cheeks and I touch them a lot while in the car. But as soon as we step out of the car she isn’t very comfortable with that. But she still lets me do it because she knows I like them.

She has also told me that she doesn’t like touch in general and her friends know the same.

Now, my point is – it is very unlikely that we kiss on a date or make-out because:

A) For her to feel comfortable with it, I need to find an extremely secluded place
B) She is unpredictable in the sense that I don’t know when she will say no for something

That makes the entire exercise very desperate for me. I feel like a desperate person even if I get this in my mind that let me take the car to somewhere private.

So, right now, it is like going on dates with a girl friends but we can’t kiss. And sure, because of my schedule we are meeting once a week and that is why you would want to do things but we don’t kiss.

And she seems to be totally fine with it too. Never has she shown any crazy urge to kiss me or has told me that she wants to.

We did go to a hotel once 3 weeks back and did a few things there (except sex), and since then I have been asking here if we should go again (again, not for sex), but she isn’t very keen on that too. I have shot my shot by asking her. Her concern is that we will end up having sex if we go there.

So, right now, its a weird situation where we meet like two very intimate friends and just keep looking at each other and I touch her cheeks and hug her and that’s it.

Sad.